THINK Before Giving to Begging Children
The last on my list of tough subjects is Begging. No one likes to walk past a begging child. I don’t. It breaks my heart every time, but now I understand why giving is the wrong thing to do. If we’re giving them money today, what happens tomorrow? We’re encouraging them to come back to the street and beg again. Often, the money doesn’t even go to the child. It’s given to an adult, sometimes their parent, but other times it is a gang leader making them walk the streets in the heat, selling flowers or water on busy, dangerous roads.
To avoid those problems, some people want to give food, books, or clothes. The trouble is, for example, does the child have allergies? Do they have clean water for the milk powder? The clothes may be sold, and the books may never be read by the child, if they’re even in the right language.
Children can pay a high price for our generosity. They learn to believe that all adults are nice people who give things unconditionally. Unfortunately, not all people are so well-meaning, and this naivety could lead the child into serious danger.
Giving to a begging child doesn’t solve their problem. Tomorrow, they are back on the street when they should be at school. The best way out of the poverty cycle is education, setting their futures up for employment, and a sustainable way to support their families.